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Next time you've got a problem to solve, get up off your butt, move around a bit, and you might find that your body helps your brain find the answer.The new findings offer new insight into what researchers call "embodied cognition," which describes the link between body and mind, Lleras said.
"People tend to think that their mind lives in their brain, dealing in conceptual abstractions, very much disconnected from the body," he said. "This emerging research is fascinating because it is demonstrating how your body is a part of your mind in a powerful way. The way you think is affected by your body and, in fact, we can use our bodies to help us think."

1. If the only way you can sell your value proposition is with a white paper, you don't have a value proposition.You can read the rest of my 10 Rules Posts here.
2. You do not earn my attention by giving me a pen. You earn it by solving a problem I can't solve without you.
3. The more your booth looks like everyone else's the more I think your product does what everyone else’s does, too.
4. Don’t get offended if I don’t believe your product will do what you promise. I’ve been burned before by people who sounded and looked a lot like you.
5. Everyone working your booth should have a 7 word answer to the question “What do you do?” The first three words of that answer should be “We help you…”
6. The number of words on your booth is inversely proportional to the likelihood I’ll read any of them.
7. These five words should NEVER appear on your booth: Trusted, Leading, Innovative, Premier, and Unique. If they do, you probably aren’t.
8. Dump the booth babes. If I can’t trust you to make good decisions about your marketing, how can I trust you to make good decisions about serving me?
9. Your product’s benefits are not as different from your competitors’ as you believe them to be. Instead of selling me “unique” features, sell me outstanding service.
10. Capture my attention before you capture my contact information. A one-dollar USB drive in exchange for a year of emails and telephone calls is not a fair trade.

1. “Network” isn’t something you do, it is something you build.You can read the rest of my 10 Rules Posts here. I'll see you at the next networking event!
2. Meeting someone for five minutes at a networking event does not entitle you to become their “friend” on Facebook. Ever! Feel free to send them a LinkedIn invite, though.
3. It takes more time to recover from a weak handshake than it does to learn to give a firm one.
4. Your life story is far more interesting to you than to someone you've just met -- and you've already heard it before.
5. Stories that start with, “This one time, I almost ….” are boring as hell. Learn to embrace experiences instead of avoiding them.
6. Never enter a conversation at networking event with more than half a drink in your hand. Needing a refill is great excuse to leave.
7. Asking someone "What do you do?" w/in a minute of meeting suggests your interest in them depends on their answer.
8. When you meet someone for the first time, make certain they don't hear you complain. About anything.
9. The most underrated skill to possess at networking events is ability to end conversations, not start them.
10. Never "network" to meet people. Network to help people.

I really like Twitter. For those who follow me, you know that I try to share lots of legal-themed tips, thoughts and ideas. In fact, most of my Ten Rules posts started out on Twitter -- where I'll test 15-25 "rules" to see which ones work best before picking the ten favorites.
However, there's lots of stuff that lives on Twitter now that used to live here on the blog. And since I don't expect everyone reading this to follow me there (or go back and read through my 2000+ Twitter messages), I decided to compile a "Best Of" list of my favorite tweets.
So, here (in .pdf form) is a little e-book I've titled: 100 Tweets: Thinking about Law Practice in 140 Characters or Less. It contains my favorite 100 tweets, in no particular order, and should give you a sense of what I share on Twitter that you don't always see here.
If you enjoy it, and would like to follow me on Twitter, I'll see you there.