Want clients to spend more on legal services? Ask them to step into the future. From this article from Psychology Today about economists studying why people pay premiums for immediate over future rewards (called temporal discounting), we learn that people who better connect their present with their future selves make better long term decisions:
Stanford
researcher Hal Ersner-Hershfield has preliminary results from a study
in which virtual reality lets people experience old age. Subjects put
on video goggles and move through a world where they look just like
themselves, or similar, but with gray hair and wrinkles. Standing
in front of a virtual mirror, they're asked to decide how to spend a
thousand dollars. Gifts? Parties? A retirement plan? Those with the
elderly avatar put more than twice as much into long-term savings.
Ersner-Hershfield says that embodying your future self may also
encourage more responsible planning in other domains, such as
relationships (should I cheat?), the environment (should I recycle?),
and health (should I smoke?).
So what if you
don't have a VR system at home? You might get results from simply
thinking about what you'll be like when you age. "Realize that your
interests and values will be similar when you retire,"
Ersner-Hershfield says. "Sure, a 25-year-old avid rock climber might
not be as into scaling Everest when he's in his 60s, but he'll probably
still like outdoor activities." Once identified with your future self,
you might suddenly care whether he looks back on you and curses you for
being such a knucklehead.
What does this mean for lawyers? If you're working with clients and encouraging them to make better long-term decisions for themselves or their businesses (estate planning, incorporating, succession planning, etc.), you'll get better results -- the study suggests -- if you ask your clients to look to future and imagine themselves already there.
Ask clients to see themselves twenty years from now. What have they accomplished? What challenges have they overcome? What are their children doing? Who's running their business? Etc.
I think you'll find them far more open to your advice and less likely to say, "Well, we'll just wait 'til we get there" because they already are.